Strap-On Dildos

Whether you are straight, gay, lesbian, bi, transexual, inter-sexed, or queer, there is an exciting and wonderful world awaiting you when you include strap-on dildos in your sex toy repertoire.

Strap-on sex is an excellent addition to any bedroom.

Male-Female Strap-On Sex

Men and women can enjoy strap-on dildo sex play as long as you both are willing to throw you inhibitions out the window. Men can where strap-ons to help them double stimulate a woman in both her pussy and her ass at the same time. They can also be used if a guy has already had his share of orgasms for the day, but the woman still needs more.

Roll reversal is also an important aspect of strap-on sex. Women have the opportunity to penetrate their guy which can be amazingly erotic for both partners. One of the biggest misconceptions about anal play for men is that doing so will make them gay. This can not be further from the truth! Sexual orientation is about the gender you are attracted to, not about what you do in your bedroom. If men are attracted to women before strap-on sex, they will be attracted to them afterwards and forever. Strap-on sex and dildo play are simply ways to reach the male g-spot (also known as the prostrate.) The only way to reach the prostrate is through the ass; so if you are too intimidated by ass play, you will never realize the joys of a prostrate orgasm. You can orgasm just by stimulating the prostrate and not touching you dick. Give it a try for yourself. When you do, remember to take it slow, use plenty of lube, and communicate your needs to your partner or yourself. For some addition pointers check out our section on anal sex toys.

Female-Female Strap-on Sex

Two women or more are perfect for a great strap-on sex adventure. Both or all women will be sexually stimulated by the experience. Most strap-on dildos rest on the dominant women's clitoris. As she thrusts into her partner her clitoris is stimulated at the same time her partner is getting off. Penetration isn't the only possible exercise. Some women get off on simulating a blow job with the strap on. The woman wearing the strap on will feel her partner sucking away as the dildo rubs against her clitoris. Nina Hartley in Nina Hartley's Guide To Strap-On Sex says she imagines the dildo as an extension of her clitoris and focuses her energy through the dildo to increase the intensity.

Female to Male Transgender individuals and Strap-Ons

For Female to Male Transgender strap-on sex, the dildo becomes in many ways more than just a toy, it is an extension of self; it is the physical manifestation of the gender identity that FtoM's live. Let's face it, the surgical options for female to male transgender people are terrible to say the least. Most are left disappointed with the results because there is a significant chance that permanent and irreversible nerve damage will result in numbness and and inability to orgasm. Doctors also have yet to perfect the physical appearance of the female to male penis. For these and many other personal reasons, most female to male transgender people choose not to surgically alter their genitals. Instead they use hormone therapy, perhaps a mastectomy, and for their dick, they turn to toys. Strap-ons play an important roll for FtoM transgender people. They are not only toys for your partners enjoyment, but they are very literally an extension of yourself. For that reason take the time to choose quality equipment that you will be really proud of. You deserve it!

For More Information:

If you need more information than the brief overview provided here, I highly recommend the DVD Nina Hartley's Guide to Strap-On Sex. It is a very comprehensive overview of the types of equipment available, how to use the equipment, and most importantly how to make you partner happy.

Reviews:

The Doc Johnson Series

Doc Johnson Professional Female Harness

This strap-on dildo is one of our best sellers and for good reason. With 7 inches of penetrating power, the dildo stimulates the bottom wile the top wearing the harness enjoys one or both of the Vaginal and Anal Vac-U-Lock removable plugs. The realistic looking erect cock will help everyone get in the mood for some serious play time.

Doc Johnson Professional Male Harness

There are lots of reason's dudes may want to strap one on, and when they do they should consider using the Doc Johnson Professional Male Harness. At seven realistic inches this dildo will give your partner the dick-down of their life. It is designed to both delight you and your partner with the optional and removable anal attachment plug. Get the dick you've always wanted with the Professional Male Harness.

Doc Johnson UR3 Vibrating Ultra Harness 2

For him or her, this unisex interchangeable six inch strap-on dildo is made out of Doc Johnson's very popular ultra realistic synthetic skin, UR3. The kit includes powder lube to easily attach and remove other Vac-U-Lock accessories. I like the vibrating feature of this dildo as it will easily enhance the experience for both partners.

Doc Johnson Harness 2 Sets

There are three sets I would like to share with you. All three sets include a realistic cock, an Ultra-Harness 2 with Vac-U-Lock system, and a powder dispenser. Set-2 includes a 6 inch Realistic cock. Set-4 includes a 5 inch Realistic cock. Set-5 includes a vibrating 8 inch dong. (FYI the difference between a cock and a dong is a dong does not have ball. Take that tidbit to your next cocktail party!) All three are unisex interchangeable.

Fetish Fantasy Series by Pipedreams

Strap-on's for his anal pleasure

There are several strap-ons in the Fantasy Series that are designed for male penetration. The Beginner's Strap-On for Him, is an entry level dildo designed to stimulate the prostate with it's slight curve upwards. The next step up is the Vibrating Strap-on for Him. It is the same size as the beginner, but includes a wireless multi-speed bullet to heat things up. Both models are designed to be worn by a woman eager to penetrate her man. For unisex anal penetration try the First Timers Strap-on Set with it's unthreatening, but highly pleasurable 5.5 inch firm jelly dong. All three sets include a free blindfold. You may see them coming, but you sure will feel it!

Plus-Size Strap-On

The Plus-Size Strap-On is aptly named for two reasons; this set includes an 8" inch jelly dong, and a leather harness that adjusts to wastes up to 48". The jelly dong curves slightly upwards for orgasm inducing prostate or g-spot action.

For bondage fans...

The Garter Belt Strap-on Set with stockings, and the crotchless strap-on panties are awesome choices for bondage fans. The 4-way adjustable harness is a kinkster's dream that will keep your partners begging for more.

The Clear G Strap-On

The Clear G Strap-On features a translucent jelly dong designed to tantalize the g-spot. It's focussed attention is perfectly fitted for the contours of the vagina.

Vibrating Ribbed Strap-On

The Vibrating ribbed strap-on set will wow you and your partners. The bullet is wireless and removable for both vibrating and on vibrating penetration. The bullet slot is positioned perfectly for clitoral arousal.