Dildos

Your choice of dildos is as personal as your choice of shoes. Every person's body is different. Some people love huge 12 inch dongs as thick as a fist, others prefer a slimmer, dainty 5 incher. As you are exploring the amazing possibilities that dildo play can have in your sex life, don't be afraid to experiment. The nice thing about dildos is that you get to try out different kinds of dicks without having to worry about the consequences that come with the real deal. It might be your impulse to choose a dildo that is similar to the dick size you are used to, but this is your chance to try something new, so go for it. What are you waiting for? You have a lot of dildos to try!

Double Dongs

Double dongs allow two people to get penetrated by the same toy at the same time. Whether it's two men, a man and a woman, two women, or two people who don't even fit into the gender binary, it does not matter. Double dongs are fun and there is not a better toy to bring two people closer. In fact, I think if we required military leaders to enjoy a double dong with their enemies before dropping any bombs, there would be no war.... but I digress.

California Exotic has several different double dong options to get you started. Their Translucence series of dongs and dildos come in a variety of styles, colors and sizes designed to please almost every taste. The 12 inch smooth double dong is a great beginner double dong. It is also a good choice for people who want to take half the dong and reach their partner in the middle. (You know, like the spaghetti scene in Lady and the Tramp...) If you want a little more friction try the Translucence 12 Inch Veined Double Dong. The ridges and ripples will get you both off faster than you can say, "Ding Dong!"

If 12 inches of double dong are making you both feel a little crowded, try the Translucence 18 inch smooth or Translucence 12 Inch Veined Double Dong. To be fair, you each would get about 9 inches of penetrating power. You know you can do it.

How to choose a Dildo

I don't need to tell you how important dildos are to you. Whether you are a soldier's wife waiting for your lover to return, a trucker who likes to sneak a little butt play on the road, a religious leader who could not be caught doing what you know you love, or just a regular person who needs the perfect tool; you know that Dildos are the most important toy you own. If you are in the market for a new dildo it can be very confusing, so here are some pointers when considering a new toy:

• Dong or Dildo? The difference between dildos and dongs are simple. Dildos have balls, dildos do not. Why does that matter in your buying decision? An essential part of any good toy regimen is the theater of that toy. Some people need super-realistic toys to get off so they may be more interested in Dildos. Other's may want as much penetration as possible from their toy, so they may want a dong. It really depends on your needs.
  
  
• Size does matter.... The size of your toy does matter. It may be too late to change the size of your partner's dick, so this is your opportunity to play around with size. Size queens can go for the biggest dildo they can find, others may be more interested average sized dildos. Whatever your preference, there is a dildo for you.
  
  
• What do you want to do with it? What you plan to do with your dildo is an important question to ask because different dildos are designed for different purposes. Some dildos curve slightly upwards to stimulate the g-spot in women, others are curved to hit the prostate in men; some are designed for deep penetration, while others are designed to impress. So what's your fancy?
  
  
• Realistic or not? Realism, as I mentioned before, can be very important for some people who are trying to achieve a certain level of theater. Others have an imagination that can turn their toy into the dick of their wildest fantasy with little help from the looks of their toys. Some people may also simply be turned off by realistic looking dicks, so something that gets the job done but looks nothing like the original is far better for these dildo fans.
  
  
• Where do you plan to use the dildo? (I'am talking place, not body part here.) Is your shower time the only time you have to yourself? If so you need a waterproof dildo. Maybe you want to consider one with a suction cup so you can enjoy some hands free stimulation. Are you going to sneak a dildo session at work? Maybe a smaller dildo will get this job done, one that you can hide in your purse or backpack, for example.
  
  
• Solo or with friends? If you plan to use your toy with friends than you should consider including your friend in the purchasing decision. Who knows? The process of picking out the toy may be so exhilarating you can have some fun fantasizing about it together before it even arrives.
  
  
• What is it it made of? Dildo technology has come a long way in recent years. New materials allow manufacturers to make far more realistic feeling dildos than ever before. However, you may also be interested in stiffer materials that do not occur in nature, and that is fine too!
  
  
• What is your experience level? If this is your first dildo or even your first penetration experience? You may want to consider something small to ease yourself into your sexual maturity. Have you been gang banged by 10 men at the same time while performing Hamlet's soliloquy, "To be or not to be...?" You may need something a little larger for your seasoned body.
  
  
• Do you like vibrations? A lot of dildos come fully charged and ready to shake rattle and roll. Others are more simple than you can imagine. Do vibrations get you off or do they distract you?
  
  
• What's your budget? This seems like a no brainer, but I understand you have to prioritize your needs. Personally, I do not think sex toys are place you should penny pinch. You should get exactly what you want because sexual health is just as important as mental health and physical health. In fact, they are all interconnected. Fortunately, though you do not have to spend a lot to get a great dildo. If you have unlimited resources, well great!

I hope this guide gets you started towards a happier sex toy life. If you have any more questions please let me know. I would be glad to help! I've posted some links to some dildos on this page that I really like, but again it depends on you and your needs. Those are questions only you can answer.