Ass Play 101
So, you are thinking about incorporating your anal into your sex life.
Its about time! The ass is one of the most sensitive regions on the human body, so ignoring it is simply a form of masochism. Whether you are man or a woman, ass play can take your love life to a new and exciting level.
The First Time
Your first anal sex experience can be confusing and maybe even scary, but if you take your time and pay attention to your body, the results are mind blowing. The key is to start slowly. You don't want to jam the biggest dildo or butt plug or cock into your ass the first time. Not only will it hurt, but if you do it wrong you could damage yourself. You could easily explore your ass with a friend, but you might find it more enjoyable if you take some time to try it out by yourself first. The keys to safe ass play are to use plenty of lubricant and to relax. There are plenty of awesome and highly effective brands on the market. Take some time to explore our lube section in this blog to learn more.
Let's start with something simple to get things warmed up. Before we start make sure your fingernails are recently trimmed. You will see why in just a second. Liberally apply your favorite lube to your finger. With your lubed up finger, gently play with the outer rim of your ass. Tease your ass while you are jacking off or playing with your clit. As you get warmed up gently poke your the tip of your finger inside, just a little bit at first. Don't rush it. If you feel pain, take a moment to relax and for God's sake breath! Switch off between teasing your ass with your finger and gently poking it inside. As your body relaxes and you get used to the sensation you will find that you can easily slide your finger in deeper as you go.
Awe, your first anal dildo!
If you got this far and you are still enjoying playing with your ass (which I know you will) then it is time to take your ass play a little further. Your first anal dildo should be small. There is no need to impress anyone with your ability to stuff large objects into your butt when you are just getting started. Doc Johnson's Crystal Jellies Anal Starter is PERFECT for your first time anal dildo. It is only about an inch wide, six inches long, and it is made out of a very soft and forgiving silagel, which will easily slide into your ass with plenty of lube.
Like with your first ass play experience using your finger, the key to any dildo ass play is lots of relaxation and plenty of lubrication. Take your time warming yourself up by using your new crystal jellies anal starter to tease the rim of your ass. Once you notice that you are relaxed and ready to take it further, slowly insert the tip of the dildo. Try this simple exercise before moving any further.
Once you are comfortable with the sensation, and you can tell that you are fully relaxed, gently apply pressure to help the rest of the anal starter into your ass. Once it is inside, breath. Take a moment to notice how you feel because you are going to feel amazing! As you adjust to the new sensation slowly move the dildo in and out.
Guys, you are going to notice something special that women won't be experiencing at this point. Men are blessed with the prostate. As you move your dildo in and out you will notice an amazing sensation when the dildo is all the way in. This sensation is caused by the dildo stimulating your prostate. Prostate stimulation during orgasm will produce the most intense cum shot you have ever experienced... Yes I mean ever!
Does anal sex make me gay?
Absolutely not! This is usually the first question straight guys ask. Let me ease your mind by assuring you that just because you enjoy the pleasures that come from healthy ass play you are not gay. Gay people are gay because they are attracted to people of the same gender. Plenty of straight guys understand that there is a lot of joy and sexual gratification found by stimulating the prostate. Whether you enjoy a little private play alone or your girlfriend rips you a new one with her strap-on, you are no gayer than the guy that has never touched his own butt. You are just luckier!
Product Reviews
Show your patriotism with a made in the USA butt plug
Love Toys is a Las Vegas manufacturer of some awesome sex toys. Today let's talk about their line of hand made butt plugs. Each butt plug is made with the love and attention only someone from Las Vegas could provide. Mind Body Source is pleased to offer three of their plugs: the
Small Butt Plug with four inches of butt plugging power, the
Jelly Tight Ass Butt Plug (perfect for first time users), and finally the
Jelly Slim Jim, a starter anal dildo that everyone can enjoy. All three are fine products that will satisfy even the most butt hungry among us.
Crystal Jellies Small Butt Plug
Another great starter plug by Doc Johnson, the Crystal Jellies Butt plug is a very approachable beginner plug. Even the most tight-assed among us will manage to find their inner ass-beast with the crystal jellies butt plug.
Crystal Jellies Anal Delight
If you you are a power bottom and you love ass play, one thing you know better than any one else, is the joy of beads. This graduated beaded plug will give you both the joys of beads and the penetrating power of a plug. Start easily with the smaller bead and gradually increase your pleasure power as you slide the plug in. .
Crystal Jellies Butt Plug (Medium)
Moving up in the world of ass play are we? The Crystal Jellies Butt Plug will be the pleasure center of your ass play when small no longer satisfies you. While this is not the largest toy you can put in your butt, this is definitely a safe and comfortable size that will even satisfy the most anal toy connoisseurs out there.
The Doc Johnson Rump Shakers
These are almost too exciting to talk about without laughing with joy! Doc Johnson's Rump Shakers not only average butt plugs, these ass delights vibrate. No... I'm not kidding. With easy to use dial style variable controls, you can gradually increase the speed as you approach orgasm. There are seldom objects that can bring people so much happiness, but the Rump Shakers certainly break the mold. Great job Doc Johnson. Now can you end world hunger? I guess you can if it is ass hunger!
Anal Beads
Anal beads are an essential addition to your ass play repertoire. Why are anal beads so great, you ask? I'll tell you, but come closer... it's a secret.... If you SLOWLY pull out your anal beads right when orgasm approaches, not only will your neighbors hear your screams of joy, but you will likely register a blip on the radar of passing UFOs. That's right! Your orgasm will be so amazing Aliens will change their course and head directly for your bedroom. Once there, they will further probe your ass with their own super-high-tech anal probing devices, which will again send you into a mind blowing orgasm, that will attract another Alien ship to your bedroom.... Let me just say the entire universe will be lined up in your bedroom ready to learn the secret of your amazingly intense orgasms so they can spread your orgasmic wisdom throughout the entire universe. You will be an inter-galactic super hero worshipped on planets far, far away! (Shhh... it's a secret.)
Jumbo Jelly Thai Anal Beads
Featuring 8 flexible and soft beads, the Jumbo Jelly Thai Anal Beads are 12 inches of anal bead ecstasy. Made out of a soft pliable jelly-like material the Jumbo Jelly's will test your pleasure limits.
Pipedream Products Jelly Anal Beads
These are perfect entry level anal beads. With four graduating beads, these beads will easily give you the climax that your looking for.
Do you like it hard?
If your ready to try something a a little hard, try these
plastic anal beads with string. Their solid construction won't give under pressure, no matter how tight your contractions are. The string is securely attached to an O ring for an easy to remove pleasure experience.
